【ASA配送】ルポ　熟年離婚｜Reporto Mature Divorce

Reporto Mature-age divorce
A crucial moment in the “100-year life era”
Written by Asahi Shimbun Reporting Team
ISBN: 9784022953186
Price: 957 yen (tax included)
Release date: August 12, 2025
248 pages, new book size, parallel printing New Book 1017
I want to go back to being alone and live the rest of my life freely."
What would you do if one day you were suddenly divorced?
I don't want to stay with them to the detriment of my mind and body.
The moods of the couple are growing. If you want to avoid divorce, you should consider the following.
Is divorce financially beneficial or financially detrimental?
The number of divorces among mature couples who have been married for 20 years or more is 39,810, or 23.5% of all divorces. The divorce rate is 23.5%. This is the highest number of divorces since 1947, when the statistics were first compiled. The fact that child-rearing has come to an end is also a factor in the decision to divorce. When considering the division of assets such as retirement benefits and pensions, “wives begin to prepare two to three years before the husband's retirement age,” according to the report.
In 1950, the average life expectancy for men was about 60 years old; now it is 81. In this age of 100-year life spans, couples are spending more time together after retirement than ever before. On the other hand, there is also the phenomenon of “graduate marriages” and “mature-age marriage activities” flourishing. This is an in-depth report on “mature-age divorce” in Japan in 2021. It is also full of useful advice from experts.
The book contains 40 cases from the “hidden hit contents” that have been repeatedly read on Asahi Shimbun Digital and have gained overwhelming support from readers!
CASE 8] A husband was told by his wife to "go out three days a week. CASE 9] The husband's personality that he realized after resigning from his job. CASE10] "Where's my food? CASE 10] “Where's my food?” became a source of fear. ...... Wives thought about how to deal with their husbands after retirement / CASE 12] "What? CASE 12] A grumpy husband who makes fun of his wife, and the price he paid for 30 years of service and what he realized / [CASE 13] The sighs heaped on him every day "My wife is grumpy. ...... CASE 25] I don't want to care for my husband or be in the same grave with him. CASE 26: An 81-year-old wife is giving her 82-year-old husband half a dozen lines, and the number of very mature divorces is increasing. I want to cherish the little time I have left alone. I don't want to die as that man's wife" / [CASE 28] A wife repeatedly verbally abuses her children. The husband's decision. CASE 30] Refusal to pay 2 million yen in alimony and 60,000 yen per month in child support. CASE 31] A strategy to read the husband's mind. CASE 32] Buying up the equity in a house jointly owned by a married couple and receiving 300 inquiries / CASE 39] A 66-year-old woman who remarried a man 7 years younger than her. [marriage activity], [first marriage n/a], [wish to be childless]. ......

ルポ　熟年離婚
「人生100年時代」の正念場
朝日新聞取材班 著
ISBN：9784022953186
定価：957円（税込）
発売日：2025年8月12日
新書判並製　 248ページ　 新書1017　
 
「一人に戻って残りの人生を自由に暮らしたい」
ある日突然、離婚を切り出されたらどうするか？

●心身を害してまで一緒にいることはない
●夫婦間で募る不機嫌。でも「離婚は避けたい」なら
●離婚が経済的に損なのか得なのか

婚姻期間が20年以上の熟年離婚は3万9810件、離婚率23・5%。統計のある1947年以降で過去最高を更新し続けている。子育てが一段落したことも離婚を決断する要因となり、退職金や年金などの財産分与を考える場合、「夫の定年の2〜3年前から妻は準備に動きだす」という。
1950年の男性の平均寿命は約60歳だったが、今や81歳。人生100年時代、定年後に夫婦で過ごす時間はかつてなく長くなっている。一方、「卒婚」「熟年婚活」が盛んという現象も。令和ニッポンの「熟年離婚」を追った徹底ルポ。専門家による役立つアドバイスも満載。

★朝日新聞デジタルで繰り返し読まれ、読者から圧倒的な支持を得た“隠れた大ヒットコンテンツ”から身につまされる＆怖すぎる40事例を一挙書籍化！
【CASE8】「週3日は外に出て」妻に言われた夫。一駅分の電車賃でつぶす3時間／【CASE9】退職後に気づいた夫の人柄。「本当に大っ嫌い」と叫んだ妻のあきらめ／【CASE10】「俺の飯は？」が恐怖に……定年後の夫との向き合い方、妻たちは考えた／【CASE12】「はぁ？」と妻を小馬鹿にする不機嫌な夫。30年仕えた代償と気づき／【CASE13】毎日浴びせられるため息「妻が不機嫌で……」。悩み語れない夫の世間体／【CASE25】夫を介護するのも、同じ墓に入るのも嫌。「別居中、自分が死亡しても夫の墓には入らない」／【CASE26】81歳の妻が82歳の夫に三行半、増える超熟年離婚。「残り少ない一人の時間を大事にしたい」／【CASE27】人生の節目で切り出せなかった離婚。「あの男の妻として死にたくない」／【CASE28】子に暴言を繰り返す妻。夫の決断。いい人が現れれば、再婚したい／【CASE30】慰謝料200万円、養育費月6万円の支払い拒否。勤務先と協議し、給与を差し押さえて元夫に払わせる方法／【CASE31】夫の心理を読んだ作戦。妻の同意なしに物件を売らせない／【CASE32】夫婦共有名義の家の持ち分の買い取り、問い合わせが300件／【CASE39】7歳年下の男性と再婚した66歳女性。「婚活」「初婚NG」「子なし希望」……